$L = \{a^n b^m | m \not= n^2 \}$ I guess I need to use Pumping Lemma for CFL in order to prove this. But I'm stuck.
Assuming that $ a^n b^m = uvxyz$, we know that $v$ or $y$ can not have both $a$ and $b$ symbols in them. Otherwise pumping would generate strings not of the form $a^i b^j$.
Hence both $v$ and $y$ must consist only of one kind of symbol each. Beyond this I wonder what string in $L$ has to be chosen in order to pump and obtain something of the form $a^n b^{n^2}$.
Alternative idea : Assuming that $L$ is context-free, then I must have a PDA accepting it by final state. Can I say that this PDA can be adjusted* to accept $L'$ i.e., all $a^n b^{n^2}$ ? However I know that $L'$ is not a CFL. Hence, contradiction ?
*Adjusted = Make the non-final state on reading $a^n b^{n^2}$ as final and the rest as all non-final.